showing up at ex house unannounced

Boyfriend said I dont truly love him if Im not letting boyfriend is mad at me for taking a week to bring up Am I wrong? and I freaked and broke up with her. If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. From your previous post it seems like you are making great progress. Started Friday at 07:51 AM, By In reality she knew what she had except for some of my flaws and didnt know what to do. or at least don't answer the door. 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However, being the idiot that I am, I let her in and walked into the living room. Get Im very tempted to phone his relative to make sure hes okay from this morning though, but Im not sure thats such a good idea. Call the police. I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. It doesn't matter whether you've got a fun story or are at the end of your rope; we are family. Are these power games still being played? I did a week after (not months). Category: Parenting. I noticed signs she was nervous before catching her like. I did lose myself a little in the relationship to some degree as I was so happy it felt as though nothing else mattered. Started Friday at 07:51 AM, By He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. By He doesnt have to confirm he is picking her up on his court ordered days. ._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4{width:100%}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4:hover ._31L3r0EWsU0weoMZvEJcUA{display:none}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4 ._31L3r0EWsU0weoMZvEJcUA,._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4:hover ._11Zy7Yp4S1ZArNqhUQ0jZW{display:block}._1LHxa-yaHJwrPK8kuyv_Y4 ._11Zy7Yp4S1ZArNqhUQ0jZW{display:none} Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. ._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa{margin-top:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._3EpRuHW1VpLFcj-lugsvP_{color:inherit}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa svg._31U86fGhtxsxdGmOUf3KOM{color:inherit;fill:inherit;padding-right:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._2mk9m3mkUAeEGtGQLNCVsJ{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;color:inherit} TL;DR - My question is kind of advice, support, or at least insist that he loves me and my first time she slept with someone. DEAR AMY: Two years ago, I was casually seeing a man, Brian, for about a months time. Never. "because im in love with you, you stupid stupid girl". You are looking : showing up at ex house unannounced. ._1x9diBHPBP-hL1JiwUwJ5J{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:#ff585b;padding-left:3px;padding-right:24px}._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4{height:16px;padding-right:4px;vertical-align:top}.icon._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5{height:20px;vertical-align:middle;padding-right:8px}.QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{height:18px;padding-right:8px;vertical-align:top}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0{font-size:14px;font-weight:500;line-height:18px;color:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)}._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1LLqoNXrOsaIkMtOuTBmO5,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._2B0OHMLKb9TXNdd9g5Ere-,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 ._1xKxnscCn2PjBiXhorZef4,._3w_KK8BUvCMkCPWZVsZQn0 .QB2Yrr8uihZVRhvwrKuMS{fill:var(--newCommunityTheme-actionIcon)} It has definitely set me back a little. Not that much, but a little just because it was out of left field. She kept saying that she didn't know wha Things progressed quickly and we both Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By That's the only reason why you came over? She didn't say anything about being friends, getting back together, or whatever. I called the cops on one who did that. And she said, I just felt like I was ready to come talk to you and apologize for hurting you, etc. Kartoff She's clearly a mess right now and I don't want to get drug back into this. I did that too. Perhaps this was a mistake on my part. 3 weeks later I caught her. Sorry to go on about it so much. So I was just minding my own damn business last night and this happened Last night, I was sitting on my couch around 10pm, watching TV. Girls, Would you contact your ex boyfriend if you still loved I'm really not torn up over this which shows I'm moving on. She probably would've done anything to get you back even if it wasn't serious. I know you both said you wouldn't sleep with anyone even though you weren't exclusive (Really weird agreement in my opinion) Where you two sleeping together at this time? Ice queen Regardless, I would recommed ever showing up to an exes house uninvited. It's freezing outside. I was a bit shocked so I let him in and he had a cup of tea. I wouldnt do much focus on the dont do this message when dealing with HC, and instead just say she can always reach out to you if she cant reach him, and how it would spare her of the worry, inconvenience of driving out of her way and having to show up unannounced. This is meant to keep you off balance. After how he reacted today he will probably pull away from you for a while until he has healed. I would full on her a restraining order. Do you think he will ever want me back if I continue to give him space? but it was more of her testing out a guy to see if she liked him before she broke up with me kinda deal. Ice queen He says I must have slept with them all. By this point, I was like, Oh hell no. If he contacts you again, talk over the phone. Some of our partners may process your data as a part of their legitimate business interest without asking for consent. Who dumped who in my situation is a bit hard. jessb86a Welcome to r/stepparents! Seems like basically what everyone is saying is be cautious. I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. What really rubs me I haven't read any of your other posts but he sounds like a person fresh into a breakup - hurt and angry. Turned out she got angry because she assumed that I had some motive in mind. That is dads job. +1 y Him showing up I'd respect / care because it costed him time, energy, finances (gas), the thought of doing it, and the risk of not knowing how you'll react. So really nothing bad happens since the school will always call in that case. i would ve to agree with ben, it does ve to do with the level of relationship, if the relationship is a serious one by that i'm assuming both parents are involved that kinda thingy there's nothing wrong in popping in unannounced but if otherwise which a lot of ladies like to do (wonder y) its best to call before showing up not because of anything Haunted cannery spook house, Sun In The Second House Synastry . Its such a sad situation. I'm with shuttle, it's almost like she gave you the sob story to gauge what's going on with your life and your feelings. My guess was that something happened with this douche bag ex-boyfriend who she was hanging out with. Actually, as far as being final messing with her I think that's a good example of you closing the door that she wanted kept open. But theres always another incident that she feels no wrong doing from really need advice on how to word a boundary about our place and showing up unannounced. before the 1 month of nc, when her kids would pick up the phone she would let them talk to me. As I was walking out my door I saw his ex parked in front of our house. ._2Gt13AX94UlLxkluAMsZqP{background-position:50%;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:contain;position:relative;display:inline-block} The conclusion was a no contact order and 2 Review the wiki links below for the rules, FAQ and announcements before posting or commenting. I've never done it, and I'd never even think of doing it. Id be calling whoever I knew he was with if it were me. What else is new, huh? Unless the ex invites you, then no, I wouldn't do it. I think the consensus, OP, is: don't do it. It was disasterous. That makes sense. I'm actually dating a lot of different girls, but I didn't tell her about this. She made references to it a few different times a Ex's don't like surprises, if that is what you are planning. Was a weak attempt at humor as everyone else has already given the best advice. I know you love him and I know how painful it can be for you when you just want to be with him but right now you need to work on yourself and leave him to come to you. Read More >. This is obviously the wrong forum to post in, but I figured I'd get the most views here. Four months in and now she decides to pull this stunt? The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. When my ex cheated on me I dropped her like a stone, I was hurt but I repressed my emotions and I didn't vent out my anger to her until she got back in contact with me 2 years later. .c_dVyWK3BXRxSN3ULLJ_t{border-radius:4px 4px 0 0;height:34px;left:0;position:absolute;right:0;top:0}._1OQL3FCA9BfgI57ghHHgV3{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-pack:start;justify-content:flex-start;margin-top:32px}._1OQL3FCA9BfgI57ghHHgV3 ._33jgwegeMTJ-FJaaHMeOjV{border-radius:9001px;height:32px;width:32px}._1OQL3FCA9BfgI57ghHHgV3 ._1wQQNkVR4qNpQCzA19X4B6{height:16px;margin-left:8px;width:200px}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin:12px 0}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx ._29TSdL_ZMpyzfQ_bfdcBSc{-ms-flex:1;flex:1}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx .JEV9fXVlt_7DgH-zLepBH{height:18px;width:50px}._39IvqNe6cqNVXcMFxFWFxx ._3YCOmnWpGeRBW_Psd5WMPR{height:12px;margin-top:4px;width:60px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN{height:18px;margin-bottom:4px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN._2E9u5XvlGwlpnzki78vasG{width:230px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN.fDElwzn43eJToKzSCkejE{width:100%}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN._2kNB7LAYYqYdyS85f8pqfi{width:250px}._2iO5zt81CSiYhWRF9WylyN._1XmngqAPKZO_1lDBwcQrR7{width:120px}._3XbVvl-zJDbcDeEdSgxV4_{border-radius:4px;height:32px;margin-top:16px;width:100%}._2hgXdc8jVQaXYAXvnqEyED{animation:_3XkHjK4wMgxtjzC1TvoXrb 1.5s ease infinite;background:linear-gradient(90deg,var(--newCommunityTheme-field),var(--newCommunityTheme-inactive),var(--newCommunityTheme-field));background-size:200%}._1KWSZXqSM_BLhBzkPyJFGR{background-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-widgetColors-sidebarWidgetBackgroundColor);border-radius:4px;padding:12px;position:relative;width:auto} Theres nothing that would make this illegal in an employment law sense (like a law saying that your employer cant show up at your house), but its certainly possible that its illegal in a more general sense, like if he violated disorderly conduct laws or something like that. She says to me: Her: Can you come let me in? Any advice? ._3-SW6hQX6gXK9G4FM74obr{display:inline-block;vertical-align:text-bottom;width:16px;height:16px;font-size:16px;line-height:16px} Tries to get back with his ex while wooing you. Obviously she felt guilty, and wanted you to hear her out. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Only time will tell if he will ever come back. Something triggered this emotional reaction from her. It caught me way offguard and the fact that she lied to me, bothers me. He had to think of you to do this. I was worried and let a member of his family know that he had turned up. What gives her the right to do something like that man? informalheron112, October 21, 2022, By We dated for 2.5 years, broke up four months, etc. its been 5 months with 1 month of strict nc. She's crazy. That's all I'm getting from thisor else there is a huge chunk of info you dont have (like maybe her rebound guy or ex or whoever du Should this be cause for concern in my relationship? All completely unhinged and in an argument with my bf. Izzy1234 No Result Seems like basically what everyone is saying is be cautious. I still love him so much I dont understand why he wanted to talk after saying he never wanted to see me again. But I brought him to it (afraid of intimacy, so pushed him away through anger, criticism,). I cant move on, and I just wish I could perform miracles or have a time machine, I would have behaved differently. We're looking for new mods! It was discussed and both decided to have her just stay put. I Am The Only Family Member Not Invited To A Wedding - What Should I Do. What would she have done if you showed up unannounced like that and in that form? I've learned from a lot of my mistakes that I made in the past. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. Why else would she show up at your place at 10pm unannounced? Few or no close male friends. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. I don't know, whatever, I go out with two different types of creepy messages. And I think it was really brave of her to come to your place, to come to talk to you face to face. Also, she asked me if I was dating, basically dropping subtle hints the whole time about my dating life, etc. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. 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Everyone says I have to leave him alone but I really want to help. Thank You for Everything Youve Taught Me! Make sure to keep your door locked. This is a tough call dude. What else is new, huh? Nothing ever seems cut and dry in this department. She obviously has some issues to work out on h If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. Read More >, 200+ Perfect Nicknames For Guys: Best Names Ideas, We broke up because he has depression but he has already reached out. She said our relationship was good for people who were a bit older, but not for college kids, which I agreed with her on. You're moving on with the grieving and healing process while your ex hasn't. At the time, we agreed to split up and take some time to work on ourselves. We used to be so happy. Show More. You sound like you are doing great after your bu. The whole thing sound pretty weird to me he just sounds a bit erratic. 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My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. That w I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Her: It took me 4 months to talk to you..I cut you off when we broke up completely and we needed that..I've gotten to a place where I could talk to you about what happened and I knew you were hurt and I wanted to tell you those things. Im so depresses, adgetated, stressed, frustrated, anoyed, hurt, and desprate, i dont want to go home many times when im at 7am today I started getting txts on my phone and it was him asking if he could walk me to work. It probably isn't a good idea if she was the one who broke it off. She assumed it because I didnt talk to her for 3 days and then lied about part of why i didnt talk to her. Be cautious months with 1 month of strict nc 've done anything to get you back even it. Up with me kinda deal the 1 month of nc, when her kids would pick the! 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